How It Works
Connecting honestly is simpler than you think. Follow these steps.
Join Free & Verify (18+)
Signing up is quick and easy. We require age verification (18+) to ensure a safe community for adults. Create your account using our secure registration process.
- Verified Email Needed
- Mandatory Age Check
Choose: CX or OR
This is the core of SX-OR. Be upfront about what you're seeking right now. Select **CX (Casual)** if you're looking for fun connections without strings, or **OR (Other Connections)** if you're open to relationship, dating, or friendship. You can always change this later.
Your choice helps our algorithm find truly compatible matches.
Craft Your Profile
Showcase your personality! Add photos (remember our guidelines - no explicit content!), write an engaging bio, select your interests, and fill out basic info. Remember, you control who sees what with our granular privacy settings.
- Add Multiple Photos
- Write Your Bio
- Select Interests
- Set Privacy
Consider Photo Verification for increased trust!
Discover Potential Connections
Explore profiles based on your preferences. Use our search filters (location, age, CX/OR status, interests, and more) to find exactly who you're looking for, or check out the personalized Match Feed suggested by our algorithm.
- Filter Your Search
- Browse Match Feed
- Like Profiles
Premium plans unlock advanced filters and let you see who liked you first!
See Premium BenefitsConnect & Communicate Safely
When you mutually match with someone, you become "Connections"! You can then start chatting via our secure direct messaging. We highly recommend using our integrated, secure **Video & Voice Call** feature to get to know someone better before considering meeting offline.
- Secure Messaging
- In-App Video Calls
- In-App Voice Calls
- Prioritize Safety
Simple Steps, Honest Connections
Now that you know how it works, are you ready to experience SX-OR?
Join free and start discovering connections based on clarity and respect.